bs what im trying to say is that lazy state ur in, that not being yourself, that happens wherever u mite be, its how u deal with it that makes a difference.
and e7na maradna elkuwait because life in kuwait is good and easy, and some ppl think no matter where u go, you wont get the dala3 u have here.

but i say GO
u need to spread ur wings

Women have a disadvantage in that they can expect lower salaries, and financial independence – with our without marriage – buys freedom.

So how can you become financially independent?

One of the most confining things I have seen here is when educated women come back to Kuwait and once more have to live the dependent life with their families. Occasionally, a wealthier family will have a separate wing or floor for their mature child, but I haven’t seen any of the women-living-together kind of thing so common in the west when we graduate from university.

Is leaving Kuwait even a possibility? Can you find a living, and a living wage somewhere else? If so, you have some incredible opportunities.

I see a maturity in this blog entry and it’s comments that gives me hope. There is a group of you. I think some of you know each other. You are entertaining new ideas, while still valuing your traditions. You support one another. All of this is good, all of this gives you a safe place while you are figuring out how to make your dreams come true.

Alternatively, if you cannot , in reality, leave Kuwait, then maybe start thinking how YOU can be a part of incremental change in Kuwait.

As a group, have a “national interests meeting” – put together a vision of what you would want Kuwait to look like in the future.

Break the vision down into manageable goals. Persist. Support one another. Think of small changes you want to see, and start working toward those changes.

Change is possible. First, you have to believe it is possible. Second, you have to be willing to sacrifice to help bring about those changes. Third, you have to continue to educate yourselves, to challenge yourselves, to refine, maybe even reformulate your goals. As a team, you will have so much more strength.

Chirp, as despairing as your post seems, it gives me hope for you, and all the insightful women like you.